Shayne Pattynama: Love and Support That Fuel the Journey
From risking everything for his dream to building a life with his fiancée Mina, Shayne Pattynama has experienced transformation on every level — personal, professional, and spiritual. In this intimate conversation, the couple opens up about love, identity, and the beauty of life beyond the spotlight.
Driven by Purpose
Shayne Pattynama’s journey to becoming an international footballer was anything but predictable. Growing up without a professional contract in sight, he made a choice early on — one that many would have called a gamble. “When I was younger, I had to choose between school and football,” he says. “I didn’t have a pro contract yet, but my parents believed in me. So I bet everything on football and signed for Telstar in the second league. Looking back, I’m proud I took that leap of faith.”
That belief in himself has been constant — rooted in the values instilled by his family. “I came from far, you know. I couldn’t imagine being in this position back then. But I believe everyone has a path to fulfil.”
Building a Life Together
Shayne’s journey isn’t one he’s taken alone. Mina, his fiancée, has been by his side through both triumphs and transitions — and played a quiet but powerful role in shaping who he is today. “She’s been everything,” says Shayne. “Whether it’s a tough game or personal struggles, she grounds me and reminds me to focus on what I can control. She’s flown out to see me at times when I was struggling, just to be there. Without her, I wouldn’t have grown as much — as a footballer and as a person.“
For Mina, it’s about being his safe space. “I don’t talk about football after a tough game unless he wants to. Instead, I just focus on being there for him, making sure he feels supported without pressure.“
Their bond is built on more than just affection — it’s rooted in shared values and genuine connection. “We have the same music taste and humor,” he shares. “Sometimes we just look at each other and laugh — no words needed.” Mina adds: “Also, we were raised similarly. We’re both very family-oriented. It just clicked.”
To our question about their plans for the future, they are on the same page — start a family, grow through every challenge life throws at them, and just be happy together.
Growth Through Style
One subtle but telling shift in Shayne’s evolution is his approach to fashion. Since meeting Mina, his style has taken on a new edge — one that mirrors his personal development. “Do I think fashion reflects personal growth? 100%. My style has evolved, especially since meeting Mina,” he admits. “She didn’t force it, just small suggestions that made a big difference.”
Mina also thinks Shayne’s sense of style has developed along with his career: “He’s become more refined in his choices.”
Life Beyond the Pitch
We asked the couple to share one of their most memorable adventures together. Mina smiled and said: “Our trip to Bali was special. It was our first real vacation together, and it happened alongside his national team duties. We explored, relaxed, and just enjoyed each other’s company.”
Their idea of a perfect day doesn’t need much more than that. When we asked Shayne Pattynama how he’d spend a free day with no training, he replied: “If I’m in-season, I’d keep it simple — go for a walk with Mina, have lunch, and just enjoy the day. We’re easily satisfied with the small things.”
Want to get to know them even better? Watch Shayne and Mina play a fun round of Who would rather?
Ready for More?
This is just one side of Shayne’s story — a story of love, support, and evolution. In Part 2, Shayne Pattynama opens up about loss, faith, and finding purpose through football and family. Subscribe to our newsletter so you don’t miss it. Coming soon!
